Although breaking up can be hard, but they can teach us valuable lessons. They can teach us bad and good lessons as well, you just need to wait for a few months. The first few months are essentially honeymoon, but after that comes the hard part.
What comes next can help you determine if you two are right for each other. No worries if you’re not – although it won’t be easy to cut ties off, it’s better to prevent further problems than let them consume you.
Here are some signs which indicate you’re with the wrong person:
You Feel Annoyed by Them
Is there actually any more obvious sign that you’re not a good fit with your partner than being annoyed by them? If after a few months the feeling of resentment doesn’t go away, you can be sure it will stay forever. Before the annoyances become a problem, it’s better to break the relationship off.
You Simply Don’t Like Them Anymore
Another obvious sign that you’re with the wrong person is the feeling that you just don’t like them anymore. Does your partner make you depressed or unhappy? If they don’t bring joy in your life anymore, it’s best to move on. Don’t make the mistake of staying just for the sake for the relationship – if you feel like there’s no love between you two, you’re better off alone.
You’re Not Yourself Around Them
Are you tense, stressed, and simply not yourself around your partner? If this is the case, you’re not meant for each other. Call things off while it’s still early and you’ll see that it’s been a mistake.
Your Close Friends and Family Members Are Saying Something’s Wrong
If your family and friends are dropping hints often that you’re dating the wrong person, they’re most probably right. If they’re urging you to quit the relationship while it’s still easier to get out, heed their advice and don’t look back.
The Time You Spend with Them Is Exhausting
The time you spend with your partner should be filled with joy and laughter. It should energize you and make you feel like the happiest person in the world. If you’re exhausted by the end of the night (and we don’t think by “that”), you’re probably with the wrong partner. You need to feel alive with your partner, not sad or simply stuck in the mud.
You’re Hopefully Looking at Potential Partners
If you’re in love with the right person, dating others would not even cross your mind. If you find yourself fantasizing about being with others, something’s obviously wrong. This is a huge alarm that you’re with the wrong person and that you need to quit while you’re ahead.
You Simply Don’t Care About Stuff Anymore
Indifference is the opposite of love, not hate. Indifference is the main reason for dead relationships – if you don’t have it in you to care about them and the relationship you’re building together, you should quit things and search for your luck elsewhere.