Love is something special in everyone’s life. It is a fact that some people have real feelings, but some people stay with someone even if there isn’t love. When two people are together connected with real feelings and love which is unconditional, their relationship becomes deep and they immediately become better persons.
There are no conditions in people who are connected by true love. Even though their other half might have flaws, they only think about the good things their partner has and they are willing to live with him/her forever. They know that their life will be perfect since their love is unconditional.
There are times when you are in a relationship, but you aren’t actually in love. You consider your partner to be perfect while he/she actually isn’t.
You think that you can suppress what isn’t good about them and also control them, but this opinion is pretty hypocritical since we all have flaws. Nobody is perfect. Think of another person. Can you think of falling in love with them or does it seem impossible to you? Maybe you’re only scared.
Don’t pay attention to the flaws the person has. Try to love them no matter what. Don’t try to change anything. If you suggest this to him/her, you’ll see that all things will come into place and it will all be good.
You need to be the person that will start with the process of changing. When to people love themselves, they start mutual motivation that will create the best kind of themselves. You’ll always be the person that your partner deserves and otherwise.
Your partner won’t try to convince you how to change and vice versa. Nothing will be done on force. You’ll protect your partner and he/she will protect you. The next thing that you’ll notice will be that no matter what the change is, it will come within you or your partner.
Whatever they want to achieve will be done with mutual sacrifice. Your partner or you will never try to disturb the sacred relationship that you have between you.
Your love will be real, passionate and it will make you and your lives complete. When you are truly in love, you’ll love your partner in any mood they are: very bad, in depression, ill etc.
No matter what their flaws are, you’ll accept them. You’ll try to forgive them no matter what they do because your love will be real and very powerful.
What you have to realize is that the change that has to be made needs to begin with yourself. It is necessary that you love you with every flaw you have. Then, you will be able to love everyone else. Every person in your life treats you in a different way, so you need to learn what the right way of handling you as a person is.
The most important thing you have to do is to understand how to feel real love towards your being. Any mistake you make, any failure you have should be learnt how to be accepted. Only then you will be able to love someone and learn them how to love deeply and sincerely.